My style of pagan headcovering follows no rules but that which comes from the heart. It’s not really about modesty, but about the balance between being both a servant and a queen simultaneously, for we are all simultaneously infinitely meaningful and infinitely meaningless.
So while watching the Tudors I came to enjoy the styles of headpieces they wore, and made one with some flat wire, lace and beads. I just glued everything together so it wasn’t complicated.
My point is that headcovering, like any personal spiritual practice, can be imaginative, inventive, creative, and fun.